Today I have received my first question. Someone has asked, what if you love someone the way you love yourself, and they still treat you wrong, what do you do then?
That is a good question, cause you can not make someone love you, sometimes no matter what you do. But if you see something in them, that allows you to believe that they love you, then you have to work on that to make that love for you even stronger so that it can last. I suggest praying to God, cause prayer can change things. If you believe in God, then pray to him for wisdom. I say, if you love yourself, then would you keep stabbing yourself, lying to yourself, or beating on yourself, or just doing thing to yourself that would make you cry or feel non existence? And after all that you have done to avoid doing those things to yourself, would you still continue to allow that to happen? If your answer is no, then why would you stay with someone that does do those things to you, if you love yourself that is.
On today, I tell you to wait up for your husband or fiance', no matter how long it takes them to come home from work, and ask them about their day, and offer them a full body massage to help them relax from their daily pressure that has accompanied them at work. Some woman feel like they suppose to only receive the princess touch, but sometimes you have to pamper your king, so he can feel like a king.
Tuesday, February 24, 2009
Sunday, February 22, 2009
Introduction: Love your significant other The way you love yourself
This is not just designed to help you love your husband, but how to keep the fire burning. Sometimes when two people get married, they feel that they love one another, and yet still end up in divorce. Because often we love, then we fall out of love. So on this first day of my blog, it is to encourage you to love your spouse or your soon to be spouse, as much as you love yourself. When you love yourself, you would not put lasting scars on your own heart. So I encourage you not to put lasting scars on your spouses, significant other, or soon to be spouses heart. I have been with my husband for eleven years, and our marriage is still going strong, with the fire still burning in the fireplace. So stick with this blog and I will help you know how to love your husband, how to get your husband to love you more, and how to keep the fire burning in the fireplace. Because having love in a marriage or relationship is great, but having continuing love is having a continuous Marriage.
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